"When you believe that a group of people intrinsically have value equal to your own, you believe it all the time and deep in your heart. This belief is not contingent on your being in a good mood. The belief doesn’t go away when a marginalized person makes you angry or annoys you. If you have it in you to use epithets when hurt, then you have it in you all the time."
If you’re a bigot when you’re angry, you’re a bigot all the time (via fangirlmarena)
YES. I am amazed at how many people will use racial slurs when angry, but claim they aren’t really racist (you see celebrities doing this a lot). But hon, if it comes out, that means it’s in there. (via somewhitenonsense)
“If you have it in you to use epithets when hurt, then you have it in you all the time.”
Q4T. Even wrote a play that has a few scenes dealing with that.